Programs to support men and women available at many parishes

Throughout the Diocese of Venice there are two ongoing programs that address the individual needs of Catholic women and men.

For women seeking a program that engages the deepest longings of the feminine heart, many parishes are now offering She Shall Be Called Woman (SHE). It’s a place for women who want to be truly known and loved on their journey with the Lord.

For men looking for a forum to honestly address the pressures and temptations that face men in modern culture, especially those relating to their roles as husbands and fathers, That Man is You! (TMIY) is available.

The SHE series is open to all women at no charge and includes fellowship, a video presentation, and meaningful small-group discussion. Through engaging conversations, authentic speakers, and enriching prayer experiences, participants gain deeper insight into Sacred Scripture, theological truths, and practical wisdom for daily life.

 

SHE transforms:

  • Women’s hearts so that they discover the profound depths of the feminine heart;
  • Relationships with God and other people;
  • Ordinary life into a story of extraordinary grace;
  • Daily living so that women imitate the 10 virtues of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

 

TMIY serves to bring men together as a “band of brothers in Christ” in encouragement and support of one another to fulfill their crucial roles in the family, the Church, and society.

 

TMIY Is designed to:

  • Facilitate a personal encounter and relationship with Jesus Christ;
  • Meet men wherever they are in their spiritual lives and help them take one step further;
  • Turn the hearts of fathers to their spouse and children;
  • Form authentic leaders capable of transforming their families and greater society;
  • Form bonds of friendship and fellowship that strengthen the parish community;
  • Provide a long-term solution for men’s ministry and ongoing formation with more than 10 years of content.

 

There is no requirement to attend either SHE or TMIY each week, and anyone can drop in at any time during the length of the program. Also, participants do not need to be a registered member of the host parish to attend.

 

For information about the nearest SHE or TMIY program, please visit https://programs.paradisusdei.org/search.

 

For more information, contact Jim Gontis, Director, Department of Evangelization, at gontis@dioceseofvenice.org, or call 941-486-4754.

 

SHE BOX

Parishes hosting SHE program:

Epiphany Cathedral, Venice, Tuesdays 6:30-8 p.m., Epiphany Cathedral School Library, Elise Filbrandt, filbrandt@ecstigers.com;

Our Lady of Guadalupe, Immokalee, 8–9:30 a.m., Saturday, Maxine Alvarez, maxinemitchellphotography@gmail.com;

St. Frances Xavier Cabrini, Parrish, 6 :30 p.m., second and fourth Tuesdays, Mary Jo Chronis, maryjo.chronis@cabriniparrish.org;

St. Francis of Assisi, Grove City, 6-7:30 p.m., Thursdays in the Parish Center, Shauna Haggerty shauna.haggerty@gmail.com;

St. John the Evangelist, Naples, 9:15-10:45 a.m. and 6-7:30 p.m., Tuesdays, Pulte Center, Katherine Standish AFF@sjecc.com;

San Pedro, North Port, 6:30-8 p.m., Tuesdays, Kristin McCombie kristin.mccombie@gmail.com;

 

TMIY BOX

Parishes hosting That Man is You:

Epiphany Cathedral, Venice, 6:30-8 a.m., Saturday, Deacon Scott Little sql2356@aol.com;

Ave Maria, 7-8:30 Saturday, Tom Nuttle foursons862@gmail.com;

Incarnation, Sarasota, 6:30-8 a.m., Saturday, Jim Dailey jim.dailey@raymondjames.com;

Jesus the Worker, Fort Myers, 6:30-8 a.m., Saturday, Orlando Zarco orlandozarco@hotmail.com;

Our Lady of Guadalupe, Immokalee, 7:30-9 a.m., Saturday; Teo Alviar teoa@comcast.net;

Our Lady of the Angels, Lakewood Ranch, 7:30-9 p.m. Tuesday, and 6:20-7:50 a.m., Saturday; Mike McEwan muchodeanaero@gmail.com;

San Marco, Marco Island, 9-10:30 a.m., Wednesday, Tom Simmons tomsimmons@me.com;

San Pedro, North Port, 7-8:15 a.m., Saturday, Duane Smith tmiysanpedro@gmail.com;

St. Agnes, Naples, 6:45-8:20 a.m., Saturday, Isaac Mejias iosc7@yahoo.com;

St. Catherine, Sebring, 7:30-9 a.m., Saturday, Ed DeCastro decastroem70@gmail.com;

St. Francis of Assisi, Grove City, 7-8:15 p.m., Tuesday, John Coyne coyne.johnp@yahoo.com;

St. John the Evangelist, Naples, 7-8:30 a.m. Saturday, Brandon Karas bkaras@gadclaw.com;

St. Joseph, Bradenton, 7-8:30 a.m., Saturday, Denny Dolson denndd@comcast.net;

St. Katharine Drexel, Cape Coral, 6:30-8 a.m., Thursday, Timothy Altieri Timothy.Altieri@altierilawfirm.com;

St. Patrick, Sarasota, 6-7:30 a.m., Friday, Joe Gomez zemogrj@comcast.net;

St. Peter the Apostle, Naples, 9-10:20 a.m., Saturday, Leo Mutchler lmutchler@gmail.com;

St. Therese, North Fort Myers, 7-8:30 a.m., Saturday; Jason Dudley jasdudley1@gmail.com;

St. Thomas More, Sarasota, 7:30-9 a.m., Saturday, Chris Pariseau pariseau314@outlook.com.

That Man is You program now at 17 Parishes

Venice – That Man Is You (TMIY), a program which addresses the pressure and temptations that men face in our modern culture, especially those relating to their roles as husbands and fathers, will be offered throughout the Diocese of Venice beginning this month at 17 different Parishes.

The men’s program serves to bring men together as a “band of brothers in Christ” in encouragement and support of one another to fulfill their crucial roles in the family, the Church, and society.

Jim Gontis, Diocese of Venice Director of Evangelization credited the growth of the TMIY program in the Diocese to the encouragement and leadership of Bishop Frank J. Dewane. This support, combined with the enthusiasm of Diocesan Priests, and Deacons, as well as the many at the Parishes, how made the initiative thrive.

“Men everywhere, and the culture itself, is thirsting for men to become the best husbands, father, sons, brothers, and friends they can be,” Gontis said. “They want to grow in fellowship with their brothers in Christ.  Finally, they are thirsting to grow in the knowledge and love of Jesus Christ and His Catholic Church.  That Man is You is helping to do just that.”

The program began in the Diocese several years ago at Ave Maria Parish in Ave Maria and then quickly expanded afterward to St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Parish in Parrish and St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Grove City. The 2023-2024 season included 12 Parishes.

The weekly gatherings will run for 26 sessions through April 2025. The program is free, with no registration. In addition, there is no requirement to attend each week, and men can drop in at any time during the length of the program. Also, participants do not need to be a registered member of the host Parish to attend.

TMIY program has Core Teams at each host Parish who will serve as the guide through the weekly gatherings. A session is about 90 minutes, broken into three, 30-minute segments: breakfast and fellowship; featured video; and small group discussions.

TMIY harmonizes current social and medical science with the teachings of the Church and the wisdom of the saints to develop the vision of man fully alive.  Since its inception, approximately100,000 men nationally have been involved in TMIY.

For more information, please contact Jim Gontis, Director of Evangelization, 941-486-4754, gontis@dioceseofvenice.org.

Parish listings – meeting day, time, (start day), Core Team Leader contact

Ave Maria Parish, 5088 Ave Maria Blvd., Ave Maria

Saturdays, 7 a.m.-830 a.m., (Sept. 21, 2024), Dominic Micillo, 904-536-1480, dmicillo@aol.com.

Epiphany Cathedral, 350 Tampa Ave. W., Venice

Saturdays, 6:45 a.m. – 8:15 a.m., (Sept. 14), Deacon Scott Little, 814-241-5590, little@epiphanycathedral.org.

Incarnation Parish, 2901 Bee Ridge Road, Sarasota

Saturdays, 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., (Sept. 14), Steve Jendrysik, 215-205-8655.

Our Lady of the Angels Parish, 12905 E. State Road 70, Lakewood Ranch

Saturdays, 6:20 a.m. – 7:50 a.m., (Sept. 14), Mike Gonzales, 913-424-8255, gonzalesmichaelpaul@gmail.com.

San Marco Parish, 851 San Marco Road, Marco Island

Wednesdays, 9 a.m. – 10:30 a.m., (Sept. 4), Tom Gunkel, 239-394–5181.

San Pedro Parish, 14380 Tamiami Trail, North Port

Saturdays, 7 a.m. – 8:15 a.m., (Sept. 7), Jack Todaro, 860-559-1596, jacktod24@gmail.com.

St. Agnes Parish, 7775 Vanderbilt Beach Road, Naples

Saturdays, 6:45 a.m.–8 a.m., (Sept. 14), Isaac Mejias, 732-986-8572, iosc7@yahoo.com.

St. Charles Borromeo Parish, 21505 Augusta Ave., Port Charlotte

Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. – 8 p.m., (Sept. 25), Michael Barrett, 941-625-4754, michaelb@stcbc.org.

St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Parish, 12001 69th St., Parrish

Saturdays, 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., (Sept. 14), John Kreger, 941-993-9988, kregerjd@aol.com.

St. Francis of Assisi Parish, 5265 Placida Road, Grove City

Thursdays, 7 a.m. – 8:10 a.m., (Sept. 19), John Coyne, 724-316-5263, coyne.johnp@yahoo.com.

St. John the Evangelist Parish, 625 111th Ave. N., Naples

Saturdays, 7 a.m. – 8:30 a.m., (Sept. 14), Brandon Karas, brandonkaras1993@gmail.com.

St. Joseph Parish, 3100 26th St. W., Bradenton

Saturdays, 7 a.m. – 8:15 a.m., (Sept. 21), Miguel Rodriguez, 718-300-1992, rod730@gmail.com.

St. Katharine Drexel Parish, 1922, SW 20th Ave., Cape Coral

Thursdays, 7 p.m. – 8:30 p.m., (Sept. 19), Timothy Altieri, 239-810-1093, Timothy.Altieri@altierilawfirm.com.

St. Patrick Parish, 7900 Bee Ridge Road, Sarasota

Fridays, 6 a.m. –7:30 a.m., (Sept. 13), Joe Gomez, 303-549-4739, zemogrj@comcast.net.

St. Peter the Apostle, 5130 Rattlesnake Hammock Road, Naples

Saturdays, 6:15 a.m. – 7:45 a.m., (Sept. 14), Jeff Tenbarge, 239-839-3354, jtenbarge15@gmail.com.

St. Therese Parish, 20115 N. Tamiami Trail, North Fort Myers

Saturdays, 7 a.m. – 8:30 a.m., (Sept. 21), Jason Dudley, 239-722-9119, jasdudley1@gmail.com.

St. Thomas More Parish, 2506 Gulf Gate Drive, Sarasota

Saturdays, 7:30 a.m. – 9 a.m., (Sept. 28), Chris Parisieau, 443-994-7397, parisieau314@outlook.com.

For more information, please contact Jim Gontis, Director of Evangelization, 941-486-4754, gontis@dioceseofvenice.org.

That Man is You program expanding in September

14 Parishes to host men’s program

A summer initiative to promote the That Man is You (TMIY) Catholic men’s program bears fruit as 11 new Parishes have signed on to start this important outreach starting in September.

TMIY is a program which honestly addresses the pressures and temptations that men face in our modern culture, especially those relating to their roles as husbands and fathers. The program harmonizes current social and medical science with the teachings of the Church and the wisdom of the saints to develop the vision of man fully alive.

Since its inception, more than 100,000 men have been involved in TMIY. The transformative effects in participants have been most evident in helping men become better husbands and fathers, strengthening them in virtue, and in increased Parish participation.

The program began in the Diocese several years ago at Ave Maria Parish in Ave Maria and expanded afterward at St. Frances Xavier Cabrini Parish in Parrish and St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Grove City.

James Gontis, Diocesan Director of Evangelization, hosted 11 information sessions early in the summer to spread the word to more Parishes with the full support of Bishop Frank J. Dewane.

“This program has a proven track record throughout the country,” Gontis said. “We had three Parishes with active programs and the result speak for themselves.”

The information nights consisted of prayer and then a presentation from the TMIY program representatives at Ave Maria Parish, including Dominic Micillo, the Core Team Leader, and Deacon Jeffrey Ball.

The response was overwhelmingly positive, with men committing to participate in the program once it arrives at their home Parish. In one Parish alone, at Our Lady of the Angels Parish in Lakewood Ranch, more than 40 made that commitment during the June 29, 2023, session.

TMIY program has Core Teams at each host Parish who will serve as the guide through the weekly sessions. Organized around a central theme for each program year and presented through the lens of seven steps that make it simple for men to follow, this engaging content is delivered in 13 sessions.

Each week is divided into three roughly equal parts: 30 minutes for a meal; 30 minutes for the presentation; and 30 minutes for small group discussions.

The 13-week program is free, with no pre-registration required. Participants are not required to attend every week and can drop in at any time during the length of the program. You also do not need to be a registered member of the host Parish to attend.

For more information about the program, and to find a host Parish nearest you, please visit https://dioceseofvenice.org/offices/offices-departments/evangelization/that-man-is-you/, or contact Jim Gontis, Diocesan Director of Evangelization, at 941-486-4754, or gontis@dioceseofvenice.org.

 

BOX

That Man Is You locations

Parishes that will be starting TMIY programs beginning in September are listed below. Please note that the 13-week program is free, with no pre-registration required. Participants are not required to attend every week and can drop in at any time during the length of the program.

 

Epiphany Cathedral, Venice

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 9

Core Team Leader: Deacon Scott Little – little@epiphanycathedral.org

 

St. Frances Cabrini, Parrish

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 9

Core Team Leader: Paul Dadowski – dadowski@yahoo.com

 

St. Patrick, Sarasota

Fridays 6 a.m.–7:30 a.m., beginning Sept. 15

Core Team Leader: Joe Gomez – zemogrj@comcast.net

 

St. Charles Borromeo, Port Charlotte

Saturday mornings 9:15 a.m. – 10:45 a.m., beginning Sept. 9

Core Team Leader: Michael Barrett – michaelb@stcbc.org

 

St. Agnes, Naples

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 16

Core Team Leader: Isaac Mejias – iosc7@yahoo.com

 

St. Joseph, Bradenton

Saturday mornings 7 a.m. – 8:15 a.m., beginning Sept. 16

Core Team Leader: Miguel Rodriguez – rod730@gmail.com

 

Our Lady of the Angels, Lakewood Ranch

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 16

Core Team Leader: Mike Gonzales – gonzalesmichaelpaul@gmail.com

 

San Pedro, North Port

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 16

Core Team Leader: Mike Lyons – lnmlyons@gmail.com

 

St. Paul the Apostle, Arcadia

Sunday mornings 7 a.m. – 8:30 a.m., beginning Sept. 17

Core Team Leader: Brad Dixon – braddixon82@gmail.com

 

St. Katharine Drexel, Cape Coral

Thursday evenings 7 p.m. – 8:30 p.m., beginning Sept. 21

Core Team Leader: Timothy Altieri – Altieri@altierilawfirm.com

 

St. Francis of Assisi, Grove City

Thursday mornings 7 a.m. – 8:15 a.m., beginning Sept. 21

Core Team Leader: John Coyne – johnp@yahoo.com

 

Ave Maria, Ave Maria

Saturday mornings 7 am – 8:30 a.m., beginning Sept. 23

Core Team Leader: Dominic Micillo – dmicillo@aol.com

 

St. John the Evangelist, Naples

Saturday mornings (Times TBD), beginning Sept. 23

Core Team Leader: Brandon Karas – brandonkaras1993@gmail.com

 

Incarnation, Sarasota

Saturday mornings 6:30 a.m. – 8 a.m., beginning Sept. 23

Core Team Leader: Steve Jendrysik – CATHYSTEVEMARIE@msn.com

 

For more information about individual Parish session, please contact the Core team Leader.