God provides unique graces and gifts for married couples to spend their lives together, serving as examples of hope for following generations.
In celebration of that commitment, each year Bishop Frank J. Dewane invites couples married 25, 30, 35, 40, 45 and 50+ years to a Mass in their honor as witnesses to a beautiful vocation. The first of two such Masses to be held in 2025 was Feb. 1, at St. Leo the Great Parish in Bonita Springs. There were 245 couples present, representing a combined 12,068 years of marriage.
“What a beautiful sight I have before me,” Bishop Dewane said following the opening hymn. “You live out the Sacrament of Marriage – day after day, sacrifice after sacrifice – in a time where the very definition is challenged and the relevance questioned. I congratulate each of you here, because of the example you give, in who you are, and the commitment you made in living out the Sacrament.”
Noting that the theme for the Jubilee Year 2025, as declared by Pope Francis, is “Pilgrims of Hope,” Bishop Dewane said it is apt, as it describes the couples present for the Mass.
“In a year devoted to hope, you are ambassadors of hope,” Bishop Dewane said in his homily. “You are a living witness, an example to many young people – showing that marriage is something that can be lived. By what you do each day, you give the young people strength to go on.”
The 245 couples represented 27 Parishes and included 30 couples that have been married 50 years. The longest marriage by couples present was 70 years, Frank and Carmella Irizarry of St. Leo Parish, who celebrate their anniversary on March 4. In addition, two couples, James and Del Kapala, St. Francis Assisi Parish in Grove City (56 years), and Michael and Ann Federer, Sacred Heart Parish in Punta Gorda (50 years), celebrated their anniversary on Feb. 1.
Frank and Carmella Irizarry first met when they were aged 9 in New York City. Married for 70 years, the couple has six children and 13 grandchildren and four soon-to-be great-grandchildren. They credit their lasting marriage to their commitment to each other through the grace of God.
Michael and Ann Federer, who celebrated their 50th anniversary on the day of the Diocesan Mass, are from Columbus, Ohio, and have two children and one grandchild. The couple met at a party in college and said a key to their marriage lasting so long can be credited to their faith and that they have been best friends since day one.
“Regardless of how the day went, good or bad, we always kiss each other good night,” Michael Federer said. “It really makes everything else less important.”
During the Diocesan Mass, the married couples renewed their wedding vows. In addition, each couple was presented a commemorative certificate, signed by the Bishop, for their enduring commitment to marriage.
Following the Mass, lunch was served in the Parish Center and there was the opportunity to have complimentary pictures taken with the Bishop. At the luncheon, many couples remarked about how wonderful it is to have their lasting marriage recognized.
Coordinated by the Diocesan Office of Marriage and Family Life, the Masses are celebrated each year in the northern and southern sections of the Diocese of Venice so as to accommodate the large numbers of couples wishing to attend. A second Mass will be 11 a.m., March 8, at St. Thomas More Parish, 2506 Gulf Gate Drive, Sarasota. If you would like to attend, registration is through the Parishes, but walk-ins are welcome.